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Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« on: January 10, 2007, 04:37:48 AM »
Saw this article in NY Times on my way back home and thought it would be a good read for anyone thinking of popping the question  :yeee:

Questions Couples Should Ask (Or Wish They Had) Before Marrying

Relationship experts report that too many couples fail to ask each other critical questions before marrying. Here are a few key ones that couples should consider asking:

1) Have we discussed whether or not to have children, and if the answer is yes, who is going to be the primary care giver?

2) Do we have a clear idea of each other?s financial obligations and goals, and do our ideas about spending and saving mesh?

3) Have we discussed our expectations for how the household will be maintained, and are we in agreement on who will manage the chores?

4) Have we fully disclosed our health histories, both physical and mental?

5) Is my partner affectionate to the degree that I expect?

6) Can we comfortably and openly discuss our sexual needs, preferences and fears?

7) Will there be a television in the bedroom?

8) Do we truly listen to each other and fairly consider one another?s ideas and complaints?

9) Have we reached a clear understanding of each other?s spiritual beliefs and needs, and have we discussed when and how our children will be exposed to religious/moral education?

10) Do we like and respect each other?s friends?

11) Do we value and respect each other?s parents, and is either of us concerned about whether the parents will interfere with the relationship?

12) What does my family do that annoys you?

13) Are there some things that you and I are NOT prepared to give up in the marriage?

14) If one of us were to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the other?s family, are we prepared to move?

15) Does each of us feel fully confident in the other?s commitment to the marriage and believe that the bond can survive whatever challenges we may face?
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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #1 on: January 10, 2007, 06:51:35 PM »
thanx bro for sharing  and i thinks thats questions worth askin before marriege
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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #2 on: January 11, 2007, 12:16:21 PM »
wc wc bro

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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #3 on: January 11, 2007, 09:02:19 PM »
ma ta huney wala budi lai pahial nai sodhchu yo sabai kura
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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #4 on: January 17, 2007, 05:52:29 AM »
good lesson

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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #5 on: January 23, 2007, 07:31:33 AM »
aba maa ni sodna parla kali ra ng lai

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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #6 on: January 24, 2007, 02:03:28 PM »
lol  kali ra  ng  dubai lai ......police ley pakadera lagla ni  bro lai
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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #7 on: January 25, 2007, 07:11:19 AM »
Yep,
These questions seems meaningful to all, Thanks!
You know, I am very shy person, but I will ask those question anyhow, to hunewala partner, even by email.
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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #8 on: April 09, 2007, 06:42:00 PM »
ma ni yahe kura sodhchu abo hehehe
'Cause noth!n' lasts forever,And we both know hearts can change,And !t's hard to hold a candle,In the cold November ra!n

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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #9 on: April 10, 2007, 06:29:02 PM »
It does not always have to be asked to the other one... we could ask ourselves whether we are ready to do those things... all the best.. :laugh2:
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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #10 on: May 05, 2007, 12:16:12 PM »
aba maa ni sodna parla kali ra ng lai

ask garda eak  jana lai po garne  k ho  2-2 jana lai  garne ho soiamd sir  yo ta  vayena hai .......

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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #11 on: May 25, 2007, 12:19:53 PM »
nice post!

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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #12 on: February 24, 2009, 12:06:47 PM »
lau aba really kaam lagne kura padhna paiyo
You want but you compromise, thatís life.
You want & you wait & you donít compromise
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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #13 on: March 03, 2009, 05:04:21 PM »
do u have bf ?

I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer.

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Re: Questions to Ask Before Marriage
« Reply #14 on: April 25, 2009, 12:01:39 PM »
abo fix vai sake pa6i ..
You want but you compromise, thatís life.
You want & you wait & you donít compromise
THAT IS LOVE

 


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